Saturday, October 13, 2007

To be a mom is to be humbled...

So a quick, but funny Gracie story. Last night, Luis and I got a baby sitter so that we could have a rare night out without our darling daughter. Since it doesn't happen often we're always a bit concerned that she might experience some separation anxiety when we're away. We shouldn't have been so worried, apparently.

I decided to tell Gracie that we were going out and that she'd have a babysitter that night. Gracie was actually quite thrilled when I told her that Jacqui was coming and danced and bounced around the living room as soon as Jacqui rang the bell. We reacquainted Jacqui with the house and I left Gracie with the admonishment to use her "listening ears" and to be good for Jacqui. Apparently, they had a wonderful time which was great and we returned home to find a quiet house - Gracie long since asleep and Jacqui quietly working on homework. I thought to myself... wow! See, that wasn't so hard. Maybe we should do this more often?

Or, errrr... maybe not? Upon waking this morning, my darling daughter was downright disappointed to realize that it was just me coming to get her and she quickly demanded Jaqui's return. When I couldn't immediately produce her, she was pretty unhappy. So much for separation anxiety!

I guess I should be happy that she's not worried about our return - it certainly makes leaving that much easier. However, the mom in me can't help but be disappointed that we're not missed more. I suppose I should get used to it though... (sigh)

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